Tony Weekly

Tony Weekly

Shown here is Tony Weekly, his wife Deb and his parents.  Rick and Kathy Pals were able to meet with them in Nebraska for the sentencing trial.  Shortly before the accident in 2016, Tony had dedicated his life to Jesus. He has been deeply saddened by what happened. He has served his six months in jail and is now trying to put his life together, using this experience to give God glory in any way he can.

8/2/13 Journal Entry

8/2/13 Journal Entry

Almost exactly three years before the accident (July 31, 2016), Jamison writes

….As we approach three years of marriage and nine months of parenthood, my prayer is that we would be a family that is zealous for serving the Lord….There is much that could be written to sum up the past three years of marriage.  I must say this, that it is good to give thanks to the Lord (Psalm 92). His steadfast love was upon us, and His faithfulness has continued with us.  He has never left us, though we often strayed in our hearts and with our actions.  As surely as Jesus died and now lives again, so surely is the Lord’s goodness and mercy upon us.

Father in Heaven, we have hope and confidence in the days ahead, because Your son Jesus bore our sins in His body on the tree.  You are faithful and just to forgive–sin can’t be punished twice –and to cleanse from all unrighteousness.  I ask for your favor on the next three years–should we be given them–in the name that is above all other names,  Jesus Christ.  Amen

8/31/2010 Journal Entry

8/31/2010 Journal Entry

Jamison writes…

Dear Heavenly Father, By resurrecting your Son, you defeated death…it’s sting, sin, no longer has dominion over those to whom You’ve given your Spirit. And yet Lord, I fear death.  Not because I’m afraid of dying or being dead, but because I’m afraid of leaving my wife, or being left behind by her.  Never before have I felt this fear!

….The thought of being on my death bed and looking Kathryne in the eyes, knowing that I go to be with You while she stays behind to face the world and it’s pain without me is the saddest thought I’ve ever had.  Even sadder than the horrible possibility of her going first and spending days or even years of life without my one-flesh mate.

….Help me to see that to live is Christ and to die is gain.  Comfort me to know that both Kathryne and I will be with you together someday, no matter how we get there….I pray that by your mercy, you will strengthen both of us in the day of our separation. And, if possible, let us go away to You together.

 

 

The Trial

As the legal sentencing of the truck driver who hit Jamison’s family was being planned, the parents were allowed to write a letter to the judge giving their input regarding sentencing.  Following are the letters written by Jamison’s parents, Rick and Kathy.

Letter to the Court by Rick Pals, father of Jamison

I want to thank the Court for allowing me to speak. Thank you, to all of those who took care of our family and the others at the scene and afterwards.

On Thursday, July 28 at 7:53 pm I texted Jamison. “What time do you leave tomorrow? Will be praying for safe travels.” At 8:52 pm, Jamison texted back. Planning on leaving mid-morning. Thanks Dad! Love you.”  On the morning of Friday, July 29 the family loaded into the van in Wayzata, MN and drove to Orange City, Iowa.   There they stayed on the farm of Jenni and Jesse Kroese, Jamison’s cousin. They spent the rest of that day on the farm. Violet fascinated with the cows and Ezra climbing on every piece of machinery the farm had to offer. On the morning of Saturday, July 30 the family once again loaded into the van and left for Carne, NE. There they stayed in a hotel and enjoyed some family time at a waterpark. On the morning of Sunday, July 31st the family loaded into the van for the last time, to drive the last stretch to Colorado, where they would complete their last four weeks of training before moving to Nagoya, Japan in October. There they would join a team at Christ Bible Institute. Years of preparation finally coming to fruition. At about 11:30 am local time, the van came to a stop in a construction zone near Bruhl NE. At that time, a semi rammed into the back of the minivan at 60 mph.   Jamison Brownlee Pals, 29 years 4 months 18 days; Kathryne Lucille Pals, 29 years 7 months 23 days; Ezra Adoniram Pals, 3 years 8 months 14 days; Violet Joy Pals, 23 months 12 days; Calvin Boaz Pals, 10 weeks 1 day:   All died at the scene.

That evening around 7:00 pm I received a call from my oldest daughter Malia.   “Dad???”  “What Malia, what’s wrong, what happened?”

“Jamison has been in an accident.”   There was a short pause. “There were no survivors.” “No, Malia, that can’t be right. There must be some mistake.”

“No, Dad. They are all gone.” Each family member has their own story of how they heard the news.  I struggle to find the words that describe the grief that gripped me. It was unrelenting anguish. I didn’t know that grief could be so intense and so constant a companion. I get up every morning and go to bed every night knowing that I will not see them again in this life. I will never again hear Jamison say “I love you Dad.” I will never again watch Kathryne lovingly nurture her children. I will never again work on a project with Ezra. I will never again see Violet running to me with her arms wide open. I never did get to see Calvin roll over, sit up, crawl, walk or talk. No more birthdays with them. No more anniversaries with them. No more holidays with them. No trips to Japan to see them.

Despite the anguish, there were other words that came to me. Words like forgiveness, mercy, and hope.   FORGIVENESS In Matthew 6, Jesus teaches his disciples how to pray and in the prayer, he says “and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.”   and he follows that with   “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” The Apostle Paul instructs us in Ephesians “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” I can honestly say, Tony, that both families have forgiven you and have expressed that openly. I know how much God has forgiven me. How can I not forgive you? MERCY In Luke 6, Jesus says Be merciful, just as your Father (in Heaven) is merciful.” In Matthew 5, in the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus says “Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.” I am not in the position of authority to extend you mercy. However, I can request mercy for you. Your honor, I ask that in your wisdom, knowledge of the law, and your experience to also consider mercy in the sentencing of Tony. HOPE Were it not for hope, I do not believe I would be in this life anymore. But I do have hope. Our families have hope. And what is that hope in? In John 11:25-26 Jesus tells Martha “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this?”   In 1 Peter 1, Peter tells us Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade. This inheritance is kept in heaven for you. In Revelation 21, John is told “God will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” That is why I have hope. I will see them again and get to spend eternity with them. The grief is very real, but it is temporary. The hope is even more real, and it is eternal. Thank you again for allowing me to speak. I leave you with those three words: FORGIVENESS MERCY HOPE

As Rick read his letter in the court, in front of Tony, the judge, lawyers, other offenders and their families, it was reported that there was not a dry eye in the room.

Kathy’s letter to the Court.

To Whom is May Concern:

I am the mother of Jamison Pals, who was killed in a tragic accident on July 31, 2016. He, along with his wife Kathryne, and my precious grandchildren, Ezra, Violet, and Calvin were some of the most generous, humble, godly people I knew. As a mother, I was by no means perfect and claim no credit for the beauty in Jamison’s character. In fact, as he grew up and lived at home, he struggled greatly with anxiety and depression. Once he began college, I believe the Lord Jesus Christ got a hold of him and changed him completely. Having lived so long with his grief and depression, Jamison developed a heart for the down trodden and felt called to go to Japan to work with those who were strong candidates for suicide, which is so prevalent among young adults in Japan. After spending years preparing and raising 100% of the support monies needed, their family was traveling to their final training in Denver prior to leaving for Japan.

While stopped in the construction zone, they were hit by a truck driven by Tony Weekly and were consumed in an unquenchable fire. Rick and I have watched an hour long video from the policeman’s car that showed the van being consumed in explosions and fire. We have seen pictures of our precious son and his wife, sitting in the van, burned and scorched. We have heard the story of those first on the scene… I have wrestled with the questions of how God could allow such a death for those who loved Him so much, and come up with very few answers which satisfy. Jamison and his family only wanted to serve and obey God, telling those who didn’t know Jesus, how much He loved them. Through unbelievable media coverage and God’s answers to our prayers, many around the world have heard about the God we serve and are giving their lives to Jesus. Many missionaries have committed to going to Japan, or are now there serving. We see good out of this situation, but it does not erase the fact that daily our hearts break and find little comfort, as we think things like, “Oh Ezra would be almost 6 now and going to first grade.” Jamison’s children’s only cousins on our side of the family, now have no other cousins except a baby adopted this year.

I believe that Tony Weekly had no intention of killing six people the day he struck our children’s van. I have also heard via the chaplain who visited him in jail in Ogallala, that Tony was remorseful and had given his life over to the very God our children served. I know that Jamison and Kathryne would gladly have given their lives if it brought others into the kingdom of God. We, the parents of Jamison and Kathryne, have forgiven Tony from the beginning. Though he is responsible for whatever distraction caused him to hit the van, I believe that knowing one has taken the lives of six people (another person died as a result of the accident) is a great burden to bear. The knowledge will most likely haunt and traumatize Tony the rest of his life, as it will our lives. I would like to request that sentencing of punishment for Tony Weekly be minimal. I do not know what is appropriate for this type of crime, but trust you to make the right decisions.

Sincerely,   Kathy Pals

 

Star Tribune 2018 Article

http://www.startribune.com/a-twin-cities-family-forgives-neb-judge-gives-6-month-term-to-trucker-who-killed-5/489128701/?om_rid=1593574857&om_mid=103377353

A Twin Cities family forgives:

Nebraska judge gives 6-month term to trucker who killed 5

 

By Paul Walsh Star Tribune, July 25, 2018

Thanks to a Minnesota family’s forgiveness, a truck driver who triggered a distracted driving crash in Nebraska that killed five of their family members will serve just a few months in jail. Tony Weekly Jr., 55, of Baker, Fla., was sentenced in Keith County District Court on Friday to six months in jail and two years’ probation for the crash nearly two years ago in an Interstate 80 construction zone near Brule in western Nebraska.

With credit for 30 days he’s already spent in jail, Weekly will serve five months behind bars starting Aug. 3.

On July 31, 2016, Weekly smashed his semitrailer truck into the back of the Pals family’s minivan while on his hands-free phone and reaching for a drink, according to prosecutors. Jamison and Kathryne Pals, both 29, died in the five-vehicle pileup, along with their children: Ezra, 3; Violet, 23 months; and Calvin, 2 months. The family was about to move to Japan to work as Christian missionaries and were heading to Colorado for a final training session. The crash also killed another motorist.

Weekly pleaded no contest to three felony and four misdemeanor counts.

 

Tammy Bain, Omaha World-Herald

Tony Weekly Jr. speaks Friday at his sentencing in Keith County District Court.

Prosecutors had sought a much tougher sentence. But Cedrick Pals, Jamison’s father, spoke during Friday’s sentencing and asked Judge Richard Birch to show mercy for Weekly. “I struggle to find the words that describe the grief that gripped me,” said Pals, who lives in Hugo, reading from his statement. “I know how much God has forgiven me. How can I not forgive you?” Pals said there are three words that come to mind: “Forgiveness. Mercy. Hope.”

Weekly wept during his own statement in court, the Omaha World Herald reported, saying there are some days when “I can’t go to work.” After sentencing, Pals and Weekly met outside the courtroom and embraced.

Signs of forgiveness from Jamison Pals’ parents were evident within days of the crash. His mother, Kathy, said that she was saddened to hear that Weekly had been charged, saying that it would be hard enough for him to live with what he had done.

Witnesses said that Weekly’s semi was speeding in the construction zone and didn’t slow down before impact, according to the charges. The force pushed the family’s van into three other westbound vehicles. Both the van and the truck burst into flames. Besides the Pals family, 56-year-old Terry Sullivan, of Denver, was in another vehicle caught up in the mayhem and died days later.

The Pals met at the University of Northwestern-St. Paul, an evangelical Christian college in Roseville. In the months before the crash, they had given away or sold most of their belongings in preparation for the move to Japan, which was expected to happen in late October. They moved out of their Minneapolis home and in with Kathryne’s parents in Wayzata, where she grew up. They were given the assignment by Bethlehem Baptist Church in Minneapolis.

The young family had been planning the move for a couple of years and made multiple treks to Littleton, Colo., for training with WorldVenture, a Christian mission agency. They tracked their preparations on a blog called joyofjapan.org, where they wrote expansively about their faith and family.

Jamison Pals graduated from Centennial High School in Circle Pines, then Northwestern and received a Master’s degree from Bethel Seminary in St. Paul. He worked as a grant writer for Feed My Starving Children in Eagan. Kathryne Pals graduated from West Lutheran High School in Plymouth before getting her degree at Northwestern. She intended to teach English to preschoolers in Japan.

pwalsh@startribune.com 612-673-4482 walshpj

 

A Surprising Thing in our Lifetime: An Eulogy by Brett Rayl from CBI

Brett Rayl, Director and Team Leader for CBI Japan. cbijapan.org.  This is my personal account.

Aug 1, 2016

A Surprising Thing in our Lifetime: A Eulogy for the Pals Family

人生の中での驚くべきことパルズ家に送る言葉

Note: This post was updated 8/4/2016 to include a Japanese translation. Many thanks to Miho Gemmill for her hard work.

“Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.” (Psalm 116:15)

Jamison Pals first contacted me, June 4th, 2013. I had been serving as CBI’s Team Leader for only a few months, and he was following up on a conversation with Michael Oh about possible foundations CBI could connect with for support. It was a short but helpful email, and I remembered him — perhaps because he was trying to help us fundraise (which no one normally wants to do) or perhaps because he had such an interesting name.

ジェ ミソン・パルズと初めて連絡を取ったのは、2013年6月4日のことでした。私がCBIチームリーダーとして働き始めて数ヶ月経ったころで、マイケル・ オーから引き継ぎ、CBIと今後関係を築ける可能性のあるサポーターの方々に連絡をしていたときのことです。簡潔なやりとりでしたが、とても協力的なメー ルをもらい、彼のことを覚えていました。なぜなら、たいてい誰もがサポートレイズを嫌うものですが、彼はそれを助けたいと申し出てくれたからです。もしく は彼の名前がとてもユニークだったからかもしれません。

What I didn’t know at the time was that eleven days later, Jamison sent a “second proposal” to his wife, Kathryne, inviting her to consider missions in Japan for their family. Here is part of what he wrote:

Kathryne, I am asking you to go with me. Let’s go…or at least let us do everything in our power to go. The Lord may see fit to keep us here, but if he does not, let’s go. It may cost us much, but would you have it any other way? Whatever we lose will be worth it if we gain more of Christ. I believe the Lord is sending us. I am asking you to trust me. More importantly, I am asking you to trust God’s sovereign guidance and care. He will be with us, and he will go before us. Surely, his goodness and mercy will follow us all of the days of our lives. We will dwell with him forever, wherever we dwell for this life. You will never be without your God and your Savior.

しかし、その11日後、彼は妻のキャサリン宛てに、ともに日本に宣教へ行かないかと2度目の提案の手紙を書いていたことを私は知りませんでした。以下は、その手紙の一部です:

キャ サリン、僕と一緒に行きましょ。せめて、行くために私たちが出来ることをすべてやり尽くそ。もしかしたら主は私たち家族がここにいることが適している とみているかもしれない。でも、もしそじゃなかったら行こ。たくさん犠牲を払わなければならないかもしれない。でも、それほど価値があることだ。もし 僕たちがキリストをさらに得るのであれば、失ものには価値がある。主が僕たちを派遣しよとしていると僕は信じている。僕を信じて。いや、それ以上に、 神の主権ある導きと守りを信じて。神はいつも僕たちと共におられ、僕たちの先を行ってくださる。確かに、僕たちが生きている限り、神のいつくしみと恵みは 僕たちを追ってくるだろ。僕たちはどこにいよが、永遠に神と共にいるんだ。君は救い主の神と離れることは決してない。

Jamison had long had a heart for Japan and began to sense an undeniable call to go and share the gospel amongst the world’s second largest unreached people group.

ジェミソンは長い間、日本への重荷があり、 世界で2番目に福音が伝えられていない日本で福音を伝える為に日本へ向かう強い召しを感じ始めました。

My next interaction with Jamison was that November when Rob Boyle, a missionary on our team, connected us via email to let me know that their family was beginning to investigate opportunities to serve. That began a long and encouraging exchange about the possibility of them serving with CBI in Japan.

次に私がジェミソンと連絡を取ったのは11月で、私のチームの宣教師、ロブ・ボイルがメールで私たちを繋げてくれ、パルズ家が日本での奉仕の機会を模索し始めたことを知りました。それが、この後に続く、CBIでの働きの可能性についてのやり取りの始まりでした。

They didn’t skip steps and Jamison led his family well. We kept talking and the Lord made it clear to them and to us that they should spend a season serving with CBI via World Venture. They would work to learn the Japanese language and seek to build relationships for evangelism via our Heart & Soul Cafe ministry. Kathryne felt called to be a mom, and we told her from the beginning that because of that call, she would have more natural opportunities for outreach than Jamison would. Jamison already knew a lot about Japanese culture and their family was actively involved in ministering to Japanese people in the Twin Cities. They connected us with some of the students they were working with who were returning to Japan. Their passion for serving the Japanese people was apparent and compelling. They even began to mobilize others to consider Japan and helped send a vision team from Bethlehem to CBI this past summer. They had one more trip to Colorado and a just few more dollars to raise before they would be with us in Japan. I did their departure call with World Venture just two weeks ago. Our staff team emailed Jamison last week with apartment options for them to consider. We were all ready for the Pals to have a long season of faithful ministry with CBI in Japan.

彼 らは順序を飛ばすことなく、ジェミソンは家族をしっかりと率いてきました。私たちは話し合いを続け、主は彼らと私たちの両者に彼らがワールド・ベンチャー という宣教団体を通じて、CBIで奉仕することを明確にしてくださいました。彼らは日本語を学び、ハート&ソウルカフェのミニストリーを通じて伝道する予 定でした。キャサリンは母親としての使命を感じ、私たちは始めに彼女にそういう感情があるからこそ、ジェミソンよりも多くアウトリーチの機会が与えられる でしょうと彼女に伝えました。ジェミソンは日本文化をすでによく知っていて、彼らはツインシティーでの日本人ミニストリーに参加していました。彼らはミニ ストリーに関わっていた帰国する日本人学生たちを私たちに繋げてくれました。彼らの日本人へのミニストリーに対する熱意は明らかでした。さらに、他の人々 が日本での宣教を考えるために、この夏ベツレヘム教会からCBIにビジョンチームを送ることに協力してくれました。彼らが日本で私たちと共に働くまでに は、あと1回のコロラドへの旅と金銭的サポートを少し集めるだけでした。2週間前にはワールドベンチャーと出発の合意の連絡をしたところでした。チームの スタッフは先週ジェミソンに日本で住む場所に関するメールを送ったところでした。私たちはパルズ家がCBIで長期ミニストリーに携わるために、準備万全で した。

It was providential that Mike Tong, one of the pastors from Bethlehem, even thought to call. We only met one month ago when he was with the vision trip. He knew the Pals well from Bethlehem. We spent a while talking about them when he was here, and he was kind enough to call us with the tragic news. I had just stopped off for a lunch with my family, but walked outside to see what was so urgent from Mike. He then told me that the entire Pals family had been killed in a rear end collision on Sunday, on their way to Colorado. I fell to the ground in disbelief and horror. Jamison, Kathryne, Ezra, Violet, and Calvin — all gone from this world.

ベ ツレヘム教会の牧師の一人であるマイク・トングが訃報の連絡をくれたことは、ある意味で神の導きのように感じました。彼とは一ヶ月前にビジョントリップを 通して出会ったばかりでした。彼はパルズ家のことをベツレヘム教会を通じてよく知っていました。パルズ家について長い時間話をしました。彼は親切にも訃報 を私に知らせてくれました。訃報の連絡があったとき、私は家族とお昼を食べるところでしたが、マイクからの緊急の連絡が何なのかと思い、外に出たところで した。彼はパルズ家全員が日曜日、コロラドに向かう途中後方追突事故によって亡くなったことを教えてくれました。倒れこんでしまうほど信じ難く、恐ろしさ を感じました。ジェミソン、キャサリン、エズラ、バイオレット、カルバンがこの世から消え去ってしまったのです。

This loss is still very fresh and our team is weeping and praying for the families and friends of this precious family. We are so thankful for the ways we have already seen Bethlehem Baptist Church swift to love them well. Below is part of a post I wrote to update our team and to begin to process this hard providence. I share it here as a tribute to this family and their unwasted lives.

彼 らを失ったばかりで、私たちのチームは悲しみの中にあり、この素敵な一家の家族、友人のために祈っています。さらに、ベツレヘムバプテスト教会が残された 家族や友人たちのために愛を示してくださったことに感謝しています。下記は私が書いた今回の訃報の神意に関するチームへのアップデートの一部です。この家 族のため、彼らの無駄でなかった人生のためにこれを分かち合いたいと思います。

A Surprising Thing? Worth the Effort to Find out

驚くべきこと?努力してでも見つける価値があるもの。

I know you all did not know the Pals family well, but we feel the loss just the same. If you’d like to continue get to know them and their precious heart for the Japanese people a little better, you can visit their blog. Jamison was a gifted writer and these posts remind us that their calling was no accident and God was with them every step of the way. They have gladly laid down their lives for the Japanese people.

み なさんは、パルズ家のことをまだよく知らなかったかもしれませんが、彼らを失ったことについて、私たちと同じように感じていることは確かでしょう。ぜひ彼 らのブログを読んで、彼らの日本への思いを知ってくださればと思います。ジェミソンは書くことに長けていて、ブログを読んでいると彼らの使命は偶然でな く、神様がすべてのステップにおいてともに歩んでおられたことがわかります。彼らは喜びとともに、日本人のために人生を捧げました。

John Piper was a major influence in their call to missions (as was Michael Oh), and this story from Don’t Waste Your Life came to mind almost immediately after hearing the news. I share it with you now as a reminder of the glorious calling we all share to serve the Japanese people as ministers of the Gospel:

ジョ ン・パイパーは彼らの宣教に大きな影響を与えました(マイケル・オーと同じく)。訃報を聞いた直後、彼の著書である「無駄でなかったと言える生き方」にあ る、あるストーリーを思い出しました。日本人への福音の働き人として、栄光の使命に召されている私たちへ今与えられているストーリーだと思います。

In April 2000, Ruby Eliason and Laura Edwards were killed in Cameroon, West Africa. Ruby was over eighty. Single all her life, she poured it out for one great thing: to make Jesus Christ known among the unreached, the poor, and the sick. (Editor’s note:  Ruby was also a relative of Rick Pals’ uncle, Norris Magnuson.  Also in this accident and surviving with severe injuries, was Patricia Magnuson from Circle Pines, Minnesota, wife of Rev. Linden Magnuson [one of Jamison’s first pastors and Uncle Norris’ brother.) Laura was a widow, a medical doctor, pushing eighty years old, and serving at Ruby’s side in Cameroon. The brakes failed, the car went over a cliff, and they were both killed instantly. I asked my congregation: Was that a tragedy? Two lives, driven by one great passion, namely, to be spent in unheralded service to the perishing poor for the glory of Jesus Christ…No, that is not a tragedy. That is a glory. These lives were not wasted. And these lives were not lost. “Whoever loses his life for my sake and the gospel’s will save it.” (Mark 8:35)

2000 月、ルビー・エリアソンとローラ・エドワーズは西アフリカ、カメルーンで殺されました。ルビーは80歳を過ぎていていました。生涯独身で過ごし、その 人生を唯一の素晴らしいことにささげました。それはイエスキリストを、まだ伝えられておらず、貧困で、病気に苦しむ人々に伝えることでした。ローラは未亡 人で、医者であり、80歳で、ルビーとともにカメルーンで奉仕をしていました。車のブレーキが壊れ、車は崖を落ちていき、彼女らは即死でした。私は教会の 人々に聞きました。これは悲劇なのかと。一つの情熱によって導かれた、すなわち、イエスキリストの栄光のために捧げられた、途方もなく貧しい人々への無名 人の人生。。。これは悲劇ではありません。これは栄光です。彼女らの人生は無駄ではなかったのです。そして、彼女らの人生は失われたのではないので す。「いのちを救おと思ものはそれを失い、わたしと福音とのためにいのちを失者はそれを救のです」マルコの福音8:35

My heart breaks for the experiences we will miss together. Their family planned to focus on studying Japanese while serving with the Heart & Soul Cafe with a long term goal of helping with church planting in Japan. Jamison had a background in grant writing and was excited to help me with fundraising; he had already shared several opportunities to help us. Kathryne’s greatest desire was to be a mom, and she was encouraged by ministries like Baby English and looked forward to building relationships with other young moms. More than anything, they wanted to share the Gospel with new Japanese friends. They had already built relationships with many Japanese in the Minneapolis area and had helped connect some of them to Heart & Soul Cafe. They loved the vision of CBI and Jamison often asked how he could pray for us, even when he was needing help with their application process. They were excited about the development of the Church Planting Center and hoped to serve with a new Japanese church plant in the future.

彼 らとともに経験するはずだったことが叶わないという事実に、私の胸は張り裂けそうになります。彼らは日本語の勉強しながら、ハート&ソウルカフェで奉仕を し、長期的には日本で教会開拓を助ける予定でした。ジェミソンはサポートレイズの働きにも協力的で、すでに何度か手伝ってくれていました。キャサリンが最 も望んでいたことは、母親として、ベビーイングリッシュなどのミニストリーを通して若い母親たちと関わりを持つことを楽しみにしていました。そして何より も、彼らは日本で福音を宣べ伝えることを望んでいました。すでに彼らはミネアポリスに住む多くの日本人と交流を持っており、ハート&ソウルカフェに繋げて くださったこともありました。CBIのビジョンに同感し、ジェミソンは宣教師の準備期間にも関わらず、私たちのために祈れることはないかと時折聞いてくれ ていました。また、彼らは教会開拓センターを建て上げることを楽しみにしていて、日本で新しい教会開拓に携わることを願っていました。

Yasuyo san and I were just emailing with Jamison last week about where they would live. They had hoped to be here this past Spring, but decided to delay with the birth of their third child, Calvin, and support raising delays. They were almost fully funded and they were on their way to MTI for their last training before coming to Japan in October. This news is shocking and sad, but we know that it is part of God’s good plan.

先 週、やすよさんと私はジェミソンにどこに住むかについてメールをしたところでした。彼らは今年の春に来日することを希望していましたが、3人目のこどもの カルバンが生まれたことや、サポートが十分でなかったことを理由に来日を遅らせていました。今サポートはほぼ十分となり、10月に日本に来る前の最後のト レーニングのためにMTIに向かっていたところでした。この訃報はとてもショックで悲しいです。しかし、私たちはこの事故が、神様の良い計画の一部である ことを知っています。

Jamison wrote back in March about the first real resistance they experienced in trying to come to Japan. They had some health battles, hit a lull in support raising, and began to wrestle with discouragement (can anyone relate?!). Jamison reflected on Ephesians 6:10–19 and shared this reminder:

For the first time, it feels as though something or someone is actively setting itself against us going to Japan. Strangely enough, I find that incredibly encouraging. I take it as a sign that we’re headed in the right direction.

ジェ ミソンは今年の3月に、日本に宣教師として来ることに初めて抵抗を感じたと書いていました。その時彼らには健康上の問題があり、サポートレイズがなかなか うまく進まず、挫折感と戦い始めていました(共感できる方もいらっしゃるはずです)。ジェミソンはエペソ6:10–19に注目し、このように綴っていま す:

初めて何かが、あるいは誰かが私たちを日本へ向かわせることを妨げているよに感じている。しかし、信じられないことだが、むしろそれに励まされている。これが、私たちが正しい道へ向かっている印だと思

They were indeed headed in the right direction, and this is all a part of God’s sovereign plan. The resistance for the Pals family is over. They have fought the good fight, they have finished the race, they kept the faith. They now wait for that Day when they will enjoy the crown of righteousness laid up for them, a reward they will enjoy with our team and all the Japanese who have loved his appearing (2 Tim 4:7–8).

彼 らは確かに、すべて神の主権なる計画のうちに、正しい道へと進んでいました。パルズ家が感じていた抵抗はもうありません。彼らは勇敢に戦い、走るべき道の りを走り終え、信仰を守りました。 彼らは、義の栄冠を授けられるその日を今待っています。主の現れを慕っている私たちチームとすべての日本人たちとともに、その報いを喜び楽しむことでしょ う(第二テモテ4:7−8)。

So what now, brothers and sisters? We know that could have been any of our families. And the loss to our team is real, we will never have the honor to serve together in Japan. This news can be like a stomach punch to our faith. What now?

主 にある兄弟姉妹のみなさん、今何をすべきなのでしょうか?このことは、私たちチームのどの家族にも起こりえたことです。彼らを失ったことは現実で、彼らと ともに日本で仕えることはもうありません。この訃報は私たちの信仰に強い衝撃を与えました。今何をすべきなのでしょうか?

God’s word speaks to us in our time of need. Now we fight, not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places (Eph 6:12). Now we race, running with endurance the race that is set before us (Heb 12:1). And now we keep on keeping on, not losing heart, for we have this ministry by the mercy of God. (2 Cor 4:1). As we mourn with the friends and family of the Pals, we do not lose hope, but rather gain inspiration. For the love of Christ controls us and we are ambassadors of Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore the Japanese people on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God (2 Cor 5:14, 20). May this news be no tragedy for us. May God raise up a hundred to take their place. May we gain fresh energy and zeal for making disciples in Japan. We may see little fruit from our efforts but, to quote Jamison once more, “who knows, perhaps the Lord will do a surprising thing in our lifetime? It will be worth the effort to find out.”

神 の御言葉は、必要なときに私たちに語りかけてくださいます。今私たちは血肉に対して格闘しているのではなく、主権、力、この暗闇の世界の支配者たち、ま た、天にいるもろもろの悪霊に対して格闘しています(エペソ6:12)。今私たちは、私たちの前に置かれている競走を忍耐をもって走り続けています(ヘブ ル12:1)。そして、私たちは、あわれみを受けてこの務めに任じられているのですから、勇気を失うことなく、続けていきます(第二コリント4:1)。パ ルズ家のご友人やご家族とともに悲しむ中、私たちは希望を失わず、むしろ聖霊の働きを覚えます。キリストの愛が私たちを支配しており、私たちはキリストの 使節であるので、神は私たちを通して訴えておられます。私たちはキリストに代わって、日本の人々に願います。神の和解を受け入れなさい(第二コリント 5:14、20)。この訃報がただの悲劇で終わることがありませんように。神がパルズ家の代わりに多くの人々を立ち上がらせてくださいますように。私たち が日本で弟子をさらに作るための新たな力と熱心さを得ることができますように。私たちは私たちの努力の実をほとんど見ることができないかもしれませんが、 ジェミソンはこのように言っています。「主が私たちの人生において驚くべきことをなさると誰が知っているだろう?それは努力してでも見つけ出す価値がある ものだ。」

Come, Lord Jesus!

主イエスよ、来てください。

Taken from: https://medium.com/@brettrayl/a-surprising-thing-in-our-lifetime-a-eulogy-for-the-pals-family-fadd45270ad3

Home with the Lord

Home with the Lord

On July 31, 2016 Jamison, Kathryne, Ezra, Violet and Calvin were traveling to their final training session in Colorado, prior to their long-term deployment to be global partners with Christ Bible Institute in Nagoya, Japan. (See article in Omaha World Herald.)  On a long stretch of highway in Nebraska, while stopped in a construction zone, a semi truck rear-ended them at over 60 miles per hour.  The van Jamison’s family was in, as well as the truck, burst into flames and was slammed into several other vehicles.  The entire Pals family went into eternity together.

We deeply love them, and will sorely miss them. We weep and mourn and ache together. Pastor Jason Meyer writes, “Some look at death and see a tragedy—the tragic end of all their hopes and dreams. As Christians, we look death in the face and see ultimate victory, not tragedy, because Jesus defeated sin and death for all of his people. Facing death without Jesus is an eternal tragedy—weeping that never ends.

“And so, while we grieve, we rise up with resurrection faith as we embrace together our blessed hope that Jesus is the Resurrection and the Life. And so, we celebrate the fact that the Pals family is not dead, but more alive than ever because of the grace of God that is ours in Jesus Christ.”

The Jamison and Kathryne Pals Foundation has been established to spread the Gospel of Joy through Jesus Christ to Japan and beyond.  Donations may be sent to the Pals Foundation at 3570 Vicksburg Ln N, Ste 100, Plymouth, MN 55447.  palsfamilyfound.org.  

To view the memorial celebration of their lives at Bethlehem Baptist Church in Minneapolis, MN, click below.

To hear Dr. John Piper’s funeral prayer, visit:

http://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/john-piper-s-funeral-prayer-for-a-family-of-five

An update on our children

An update on our children

We’ve spent the last couple posts sharing about our burden and vision for ministry in Japan.  Going forward, we plan to focus primarily (though not exclusively) on what’s happening in our family, starting with an update on our children.

Calvin.  Our little guy is quickly becoming not little–he’s already well over 14 pounds.  He loves to eat, smile and baby talk.  He’s probably our toughest baby yet, having survived the loving onslaught of his older brother and sister for over two months now.

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“I’ll go; send me.”
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A boy and his Momma…yet sinners.

Violet.  Her middle name is Joy, and that is fitting.  She is a happy soon-to-be two year old who loves babies and always wants to “go to Caribou (Coffee) tomorrow.”  She can normally be found talking on your cell phone with her Grandpa and Grandma or putting your chapstick on her babies.

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Violet went on a rare date with Momma to a beautiful garden by the lake.
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A near-perfect glimpse into Violet’s personality.
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Two of Violet’s favorite babies.

Ezra.  When Ezra grows up, he still wants to be a worker guy, and we think he will be a good one.  He has greatly enjoyed living in the Land of 10,000 Cousins (Papa and Nana’s house), where legos abound and naps are few.  He is learning to swim and can hold his breath underwater for 14 seconds.  Ezra understands well that we’re moving to Japan soon, though he wants to know if it’s a short or long drive from Grandpa and Grandma’s house.

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Fun at the beach.
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Ezra meeting a cow for the first time.  The cow was afraid.
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Ezra brings every night to a close with 1) family worship, 2) reading two books while eating apple slices and 3) story/snuggle time.
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When the front yard turned into a puddle, Ezra knew what to do.  Violet learned quickly from her big brother.
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When streams of water flow from your boots…